I think I got off his domain. Never let love tie you up, especially on blog sites where someone can hold your life, soul experiences, and memories hostage.
(edit: According to a rumor, I think he died. This is horrible if true. I wish nothing bad upon him, even though we parted under no good circumstances. However stay independent no matter what)
I am relieved that through an alternate backup, I haven’t lost any of my posts from the last 10 years. They mean a great deal to me, as they trace my life backwards.
Let the River Run 
Glad you’re on your own. It’s the way to go forward.
Sorry for your loss. Good parting or bad he was a part of your life.